You said "if YOUR wondering" YOUR is a possessive pronoun. What you should use is a contraction if you are shortening "If YOU ARE wondering" and it should be "If YOU'RE wondering"
It's kind of like the word "Their" There is also "they're" and "there". Another kiss of death in the online dating world.
Which I think a woman is being a little stuck up if this really is a deal breaker. M and I joke all the time. He will send a text using the wrong version and then quickly correct himself. I tell him he doesn't have to do that with me. He said he chatted with women and as soon as he used it wrong they became all self righteous about it.
I said I stink at math. I'm pretty good grammatically but if guys judged me by my mathematically abilities, I would never get a date! M is really good at math and he said he should have started throwing algebra at them.
