Well, I haven't fallen off the face of the earth. I AM wondering if our Shinybear has. Where are you Shiny?? Miss you woman!

Life is...well, different. I haven't seen hide or hair of the alien or (former) OW in a long time. In fact, I just can't figure out what to do with my Wolfie as he treats me like the princess (that I AM) these days. We recently celebrated our 10 annaversary together and are still working on putting a wedding together in late August.

Just to let you all know: DBing works. I never agreed with the "no snooping" policy, as there were many times when snooping confirmed that actions matched words and that I could rely on my instincts.

So the year from hell came and went. I won't lie, I think both of us think about it every single day and both of us still have healing to do, but we are getting better at turning toward each other--not away from each other.

Word to the wise: DON'T rent Secret Window if you are reconciling!! Wolfie brought it home & we both had a mini-meltdown over the first scene. It's about a betrayed spouse who's mind splits on bomb-day (catches his wife in bed with an OG) then eventually kills wife and OG with a shovel. Something clicked with Wolfie though--I think it really hit home for him how it would have felt for him if the shoe had been on the other foot--as he would like to think he would take it with super-human maturity if I had been the one to be unfaithful {picture me rolling my eyes}.

He's still carrying alot of guilty baggage & I'm working on him to get him to open up more about that and start letting it go.

Big to all of you guys! Anyone care to catch me up on their latest big happenings?