What would be the reason to engage in a "status talk"? If she were ready to change that status, she'd be doing it and you'd know already. So it's going to come off as pressure to her.
Respect her wishes to not be with you and don't do things for her like family holidays, Christmas gifts, etc.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
