I don't look at the tower collapsing as getting a D, I see it as you being ready to move on from her so that you can live your best life.
I look at that as the LBS deciding to knock the tower over. Most come here hoping to find a way to avoid the tower collapsing, but many get to this point.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018