Oh yeah its hard, my WW went from working out of the house to working at home last month. Now she never leaves the house and has been pursuing me. You say that's great right? But she still says she wants her independence and to stop sweating her when she does occasionally go out. I broke free of my NG syndrome to an extent a few months ago and don't care where she goes anymore and lose no sleep over it. I am still cordial at home like everyone says the way I would be with a cashier at a store. I want a civil home for my kids. I have my own independence now because I am not worried about catering to my W whether she is a WW or not at this point. I feel like she has come back to me but 98% is all words and very little action so I would not even consider any R talks or if I even want R.
Again I didn't wait for the tower to collapse, I kicked it over and she sees that I did that. I am already rebuilding another one and she either joins in or not.
What did Morgan Freeman say in Shawshank Redemption....get busy living or get busy dying. If you don't let go you are slowly dying.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
