Not struggling quite as much

[Jim1234]

tell the judge you agree to the terms and boom, that's it you're D'd. There's really not much to it unless the terms are in dispute.It does help to have a L to help you navigate the process though, they know the ins and outs and what the judge is looking for and where to file the papers and all that.

Here in PA there is no legal separation either,but the Separation Agreement is just a statement of the terms, confirming they are not in dispute. I'm going to let her L navigate the process from here so I don't have to. Thanks for all your support over the years, AS.

W and I met at the bank yesterday to sign/notarize the Separation Agreement. We needed a witness, so a mutual friend came by later and signed the agreement. I'm going to drop it off at her house right now. Bittersweet. People keep saying "congratulations" and "I'm so happy for you", but I don't really feel "happy" about it. It's just one more part of the process to endure.