Thanks a lot for your good advice. I know I will have to look towards myself, not WW, not OM.I will definitely try to show no emotions towards her. She is really in the fog, or maybe she is just really in love and done with me? (I think she is for the time being), and this is my time to reinvent myself and go from being the doormat, the nice guy and the slob that I became, and become the guy I was before all of this - I liked that guy. And apparently so did she.
The OM and her are texting from second she gets up in the morning, till the second she goes to bed (yea detach alert, I should not care).
I got the kids this morning and for the coming 7 days. She then said this morning, that I could just make plans cause she didn't have any for today. It kind ticked me, cause I saw a text from OM on her phone, and I yea, it got my emotions going. Unfortunately I reacted, when I know I shouldn't. I became grumpy, and yea I looked angry no doubt. She asked if she should pick up the kids from daycare, and if we could go and grab a christmas tree today? I responded: "WW, I just got "responsibility" for the kids this morning, and I have made plans for me and them. You can make plans yourself if you like."
Then I avoided her, didn't look her in the eyes (yea thats not really showing her I don't care.... I need to work on being content even though im not, because this is showing her that I am still attached to her, and that what she does, and how, has an affect on me, which I don't want!).
BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018. EA: June 2018 PA: August 2018 - ongoing Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.
