Dude don't get her anything for Christmas, she has forsaken her vows and treats you like crap. She's seeing OM right? I bet he's getting her something, why would you?
And for that matter, I'm not for having dinner or holidays as a pretend family when your W doesn't want that.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.