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Have you been playing, teasing a little, flirting just a bit, laughing, and generally being fun for her to be around you?


Yes! And one thing that I find revealing, although I'm not sure what it reveals is W's occasional use of self-deprecating humor. This from a woman that struggled with taking responsibility. Who was usually overly defensive.
But yes we do those things.

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Don't over think the non-sexual touching, b/c it should be a natural human response.

I haven't really thought about it too much. I realize that it is not a temp-take opportunity. I've just been busy and sick. I did try these touches a month or so back and wasn't consistent and when I Over-Hugged and W said it made her feel a bit uneasy I stopped all touch. There has been one appropriate hug since that I shared here.

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So, tell me how you two tell each other goodbye when you leave for work?

I have a home office and she comes up and says she is leaving and we discuss any business and tell each other to have a good day. No pet name. I used to call her Sweetie but stopped after BD#2. If she ever had one for me, I don't remember. Maybe "Pappy" it's been a long time.

I will initiate soon and not temp-take yet report back.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.