Oh Talitsa! I can't believe it! I just read through your first thread when you mentioned your H blaming the A on you in part because you bought him the wrong x-mas present 3 years before. I heard the same exact story, except it was not only christmas but birthday!!!!!!!(and my mother bought him a bad christmas gift....and now that I think of it my 87 years old blind and broke grandmother).LOL! obviously you've been able to "pull it out" as they say....I will be catching up on your threads....I am in awe of the success stories here on the board. I only hope --and pray--that someday I can be one of them.


been around awhile!