I have been looking for the right opportunity to initiate casual non-sexual touch. This has been difficult. The first couple of Touches are bound to cause attention and I want them to be natural.
Don't over think the non-sexual touching, b/c it should be a natural human response.
Also, don't put your hand on her....and leave it there while you examine her facial expression or reaction. Know what I mean? You simply touch her and move on. Don't draw attention to it. If you've not touched her since we suggested the non-sexual touching...…..then you are over thinking it. What are you waiting on? Looking for the right opportunity sounds like you are making it too complicated.
How long has it been since you patted her back or touched her shoulder? I'm thinking it must have been a while, if you are looking for an opportunity.
When she's standing at the kitchen counter/stove preparing dinner, do you ever walk up and look over her shoulder and ask what's for supper, or what is she making? That's a perfect time to touch her. Most anytime you walk and stand by her, or pass by her, you can give a light touch.
When you were walking around in the mall, there wasn't at least once that you could have touched her?
So, tell me how you two tell each other goodbye when you leave for work?
Have you been playing, teasing a little, flirting just a bit, laughing, and generally being fun for her to be around you?
Sorry to hear you've been somewhat under the weather. When she feels of your forehead, just lightly pat her arm. It's just a way to show you appreciate her caring that you might have a fever. No words, just a light tough.
Does she call you by a pet name? Do you have a pet name for her, and are you currently using it?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
