13 years and 2 kids pt. 3.

[Joe2017]

To piggyback off what Sandi said, your actions should be in no way shaped or modeled after the OM. You should not look at the dude and think about what he has that you don't, because it's not about the OM. This is about you becoming the best version of yourself possible. Your WW liked you before, right? She fell in love with you before because you were worthy. And you still are, you just have to get a tune up and a detail. Like Sandi said, this is about her mental condition.

Not to mention the OM is usually trash; the type of garbage that dates married women. My ex has been telling me all the horror stories about her OM, and how boorish, disgusting, and deviant he is.

The OM is not your competition. You're the only person who can hold yourself back from reinventing yourself.