Oh wow.. this is turning into an absolute car crash.

David.. I said many months ago what would happen if you didn't get your act together. You have had so much good advise from people who have been there and got the t shirt and you have ignored everything.

Your desperation is palpable and your quest to get wife to 'snap out of it' is nothing but a fantasy. She doesn't love you nor does she want to be with you - why are you taking so long to understand this?

Im sorry for the harshness but you really need to start looking in the mirror here because your view on reality is sadly warped.