Appreciate the feedback..and yes my hope it to have peaceful coparenting. Heck with Thanksgiving we were able to split up the day and it worked out great...and that provided me a brief hope that we could do something similar with Christmas.
I do realize I need to be mindful that my intent is to not maintain this stance long term and keep my side of the street clean.
I have to be honest there is some anger there. W was pleasantly cordial over Thanksgiving...but her attorney has intervened and redirected her to maintain a hostile approach after her initial plan to make a full play at custody fell through and now w continues to follow her guidance blindly. I know it’s their job to try and muck up the waters to garner a reaction from me, and thus far I haven’t and won’t bite.
I do believe once a decree is done...the tension will alleviate, but unfortunately that doesn’t seem to be happening anytime in the near future.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18