Dang, TF I had such a good response but I hit a button and lost it all. So here I go again. What I mean by quick response is picking up the phone the moment your W calls. Let it go to voicemail like most people here are suggesting. As for the crossing the line comment you misunderstand my friend. I've said this before your W is thinking about you, the kids the family. I bet she even contemplates at times not wanting this divorce any more than you. But when you pursue and you have pursued, she justifies in her head why she needs to follow through with her actions. I mean you no disrespect you have done a great job but when you see the cracks you jump, and I know how easy it is to do that. I have been here before, and only after I quit jumping and pulled way back and detached did my wife start considering reconciliation. After we got back together it was clear that my W had never quit thinking about our R. There were also powerful forces trying to keep us apart. I didn't get along with my in-laws nearly as well as you seem to get along with yours. My W also lacked for nothing and when she moved out she got a great deal on rent from her parents. Her Mom didn't like me much and the rest of the family could take me or leave me. She really had no reason to take me back, but she did. TF I still have a lot of faith that your W and you will reconcile and your family will be whole again and, in the end, will be much better because of this. I have no resentment for my W because of what happened to us in 2003, I feel we had to go through it because if we hadn't and we remained married and in the state that we were in our lives would be drastically different and not for the better.
Last edited by Again18; 12/13/1805:24 PM.
M46 W44 T20 M19 S21 D17 D11 D9 BD 1/2003 Reconciled 2/2004 Contemplating leaving again 4/2018 Deciding to stay 10/2018 (dodged another bullet...few)
