Interestingly, W and i and my folks and our kids and a couple of friends had dinner at same establishment a few weeks back, and the same bartender was there (My W indicated as much when we walked in). He obviously remembered her by the way he looked at her when we came in... which didn't bother me 't'all. (And he didn't say word one to her or approach her, either, but did glance over a few times )
You are a better man than I am. I would have told my folkd and kids and friends that if we couldn't find a different establishment then my W and I wouldn't be attending the dinner.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018