I spoke to WW at an event we were at seperately. I said to WW that I didn't approve of her taking money and I now know she hadn't been honest about it for years. She said that she had been unhappy before then. She then claimed I'd called her stupid and had been critical of her the way she dressed and walked and I didn't want her seeing friends. The truth is that I used to encourage her to go out to see friends but she'd say she couldn't be bothered. She'd only had one friend locally. Her lack of friends wasn't my fault. We were busy parents, working and studying too.
However, I said that I understood that she must have thought she had valid reasons at the time. I said I had wanted us to be able to talk in a calm way, she said yes but would want someone else there too but wasn't yet ready for that and so she would write me a letter. I said there was no need for a letter. I said that I wasn't going to plead for her to come back as I wanted to be with someone who was fighting for my family not a partner who was half-hearted. I said that she'd never apologised for what she's done. She then said that she was sorry. I said those are just words not actions. W said the kids don't want us to be together. At the end she said "It has been noted that you've been making a lot of good progress".
