Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 2)

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So I moved on and my current GF is half her age, sweet, thinks I hung the moon, and looks like a Playboy centerfold. Like the saying goes, when life hands you lemons then make lemonade, LOL!

I've heard you say this a few times and it is encouraging for those of us with little hope (despite the OTHER things you say repeatedly about hope). The way you phrased it this time, about how she thinks you hung the moon, it almost seems like there might be something about the women with whom the LBS ends up. Maybe they are even MORE impressed that such a good person could have been hurt the way they were. Almost like, if you're "hard to get" then you're desirable, while if other women don't want you then you're less desirable in the eyes of other women, EXCEPT when the other woman is perceived by women as being silly to have given you up and freed you to be with the new one. So if a decent lady comes along and understands that you were left behind for what appear to be relatively minor issues (which you worked on in the meantime), then you become desirable in a way that makes it impossible for them to keep their hands off of you.

Not sure what Sandi thinks about that, but it fits with what she says about how the WW becomes jealous when she realizes that the LBH is now available to excellent women who make WW look like a total fool.