Hi Talitsa - I so enjoy reading your posts - they are like a light in the distance, confirming that the direction I'm heading in is an OK one.
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If I had not seen improvement in those areas over time, I would have walked away and told myself that it was Wolfie's loss.


I think when I tell myself that I have not made a final decision about my future, this is what I am looking for. The A ending is just a starting point for the new R, how NG and I now relate to each other will be what matters.
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Ya know, I always knew our R had the potential to be great, but we both had limited abilities to express ourselves or ask for what we needed.


Another point of resonance. And it will probably take a lot of hard work and time to get to a good place, we still have trust issues to work through.

I'm feeling a bit better after visiting you. Thanks. Hugs, Slowly


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