New chapter....with or without her

[EZdozit]

LH,

I’m keeping this stance in large part due to recommendations from my IC, divorcecare group, and plain confusion it has caused S when we have done things as a family.

I can’t say I’ll maintain this for the long term, but I place my s emotional stability at the forefront.

Given this time of year, his age, and the crap year he’s had. Heck, even in his letter to Santa s asked for his family to get back together at the top of his wishes....he’s finally adjusting to his new reality, but believe this is my best approach going forward until it’s not so raw for him.