So by advice from Sandi, I was to not engage in any activities with her. Tell her that I am done with her, and then be done with her, and show that to her through me not wanting anything to do with her because of her actions as a WW.
How do I do this, and at the same time "ooze" the effect of being a man only a fool would leave?
I think some LBH's read this to mean "Be the husband only a fool would leave". When you are living in a marital separation at the WW's request, then you cannot be a husband she would be a fool to leave.
This quote that's passed around actually says "Be the man only a fool would leave". Get your thoughts off being her husband, and focus on being a man that any woman in her right mind would want to have & keep.
Do you see the difference? If not, it's important that you tell me.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
