Tonight my D16 has a concert. WW is out of town "again". WW texted me asking me to please get video of the concert for her, since you know, she decided to be out of town instead of here with her family "again". I didn't respond. I will take video and put it on YouTube and give it to D16. If D16 wants to share with WW thats up to her.
First, good grief that's horrible. One thing I'll say about my ex is she remained a fantastic mom all through our sitch and still is to this day. That just makes me really sad for your D16, she's at that age where parental support is so important. Especially when going through something like this.
Second, great idea on your approach!
Yes, over the last year my WW has detached hardcore from the kids along with me. First it was her attention to her new job, then her EA and then PA. WW chooses work at minimum over family every time. WW has missed a lot in the kids lives this last year.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
