Could really use a Sandi post about do what works explaining why not replying works. I hate this sht. All I want to do is connect with my W in healthy ways and heal this relationship thats basically non-existent besides D4.

Love, holidays all that good stuff.... but instead I have to ignore her. Talk about counter intiutive. Thanks all for chiming in.

H: 33 W:32
M: 5 T: 8
D: 4
BD: 6/2017
MO: 6/2017
House sold: 6/28/18
W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18
Paying $ support since 7/18.
Physical Reconnect- 10/18
W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18