I did not go into the nitty gritty details of my sexual encounters. She knows that I have not dated anyone seriously since my D and that I have not had sex with anyone either. Those are all the details she knows. When she asked me the question I asked her if oral counted and she only seemed concerned about the va j j.
If I felt like I had caught the H I would have certainly disclosed. The only way I would have got it on my penis is if I would have had sex with her and I didn't. I guess I could have contracted it when she gave me oral however she did not have herpes of the mouth it is down south.
She is clearly into me. She called me last night and she texted me this morning before she got on her flight to Boston. It doesn't really concern me why she is in to me but I take it as a compliment.
Now any time you open yourself up to another person you run the risk of it being heart broken. That will happen, most R's don't work out, very few make it to MR. Some last for days, others weeks, some a few months, others longer so red flags or not I just think the best plan of action is to stay on my purpose with my girls, with my workouts, with work, with my life and fit her in when I can. I know making her the focal point of my life will lead to more heartbreak than if she is just an ingredient (her or anyone else). I say that assuming that we will continue to date and if it ended tomorrow I would not be heartbroken.
She is the only 1 am currently talking to. It's not that I have backed off anyone else it has just happened this way. Right after things with HG ended I turned off my Match profile but forgot to turn off Bumble. This girl swiped R on me first on BUMBLE and I liked her pics and what she wrote so I matched with her. I have other girls swipe on me but I have not been interested so her and I just sort of happened.
