Maika gave you great advice, and it is always a good idea to listen to him. Keeping things brief, and not being overly friendly or interested is always a good idea for dealing with a WAS. You have your own life to live without him. The thing is, that needs to be your truth, not just a front you show him.
You make it sound like he is deciding whether or not to sleep at your place on Christmas. Why would that be his decision? Why would you want that?
Remember not to have any expectations. Zero.
hugs,
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
