Give yourself some grace...you are human. I have implemented talking with various females of late and it has vastly helped with my approach and engagement with W...which is essentially minimal. We had S’s school Xmas recital the other day...I brought my mom and arrived early to get front row seats. W and FIL arrived late...we didn’t save them a seat. After show, we had minimal interactions and my mom was disgusted with how fake they were.
Keep up boundaries and don’t tolerate anymore BS your w slings at you. Mine continues to try and change up the rules as things continue to not go her way and her fantasyland is crumbling. I’ve held firm...and living the best life I can, and it has been apparent on many fronts. My S wants to be with me....friends I “divorced “ and left for my wife have started to reach back out...heck even some of her relatives are coming around and seeing the happy carefree guy I’ve worked to become and asking hard questions as to the validity on some of the garbage W told them as to why she wants to D. Her gaslighting and narcissistic behavior is now biting her in the A$$.
Stay true to your convictions and keep DBing..
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
