Update:

So in a follow up to my "emotional" outburst in journaling form above, I also came to wonder over the past couple of hours. So what I want, is to detach myself and be able to move forward with or without her in my life. If without, then detachment makes it that much easier, am I right?

I also have been advised multiple times to be; A man only a fool would leave.

So by advice from Sandi, I was to not engage in any activities with her. Tell her that I am done with her, and then be done with her, and show that to her through me not wanting anything to do with her because of her actions as a WW.

How do I do this, and at the same time "ooze" the effect of being a man only a fool would leave?


BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018.
EA: June 2018
PA: August 2018 - ongoing
Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids
WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.