I'm a little bit different. I'd not give her sex until she is fully committed to you because you'll get reattached and she'll know she still has you by the balls and then you'll feel like you were used (you were) and be upset and most LBS's will be laying covert contracts quicker than a union stonemason.
A good response would be "I'm just not in the mood at the moment, thanks" or if you want to piss her off say "I have to go rearrange my sock drawer". What would you tell any woman who isn't in love with you if you didn't want to have sex with her?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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