I know it will probably be a while before I have to worry about this, given my sitch, but.....Questions about sex.

Given my current sitch, not going to approach sex with W, unless / until she asks.

But, I’m sure at some point she will (hey, it could happen).

So: Let’s say she asks for sex. Recommended course of action? Oblige? Deny? Tell her to strip right there and then get after it? Or, have sex but such that she isn’t really satisfied? Or something else I haven’t mentioned?

Given our past history, I’m also kinda waiting for the ‘why haven’t you asked to have sex in [however long]?’ What would be a good response?


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19