Don't tell her it was or was not a date. It's none of her business. She shouldn't even know how you met this friend anyways. You're always "out with friends". This is a great way to stop the cake-eating. Be brief yet polite, but break off the convos sooner. I would limit meal together and time together with your daughter too.
Your W is full of "it". This year is great: I went to the hospital for some crazy stuff, had an affair, broke my vows, lied to my husband, betrayed my family, had to get a new job, worried about my husband dating, and live like hell. Don't believe a word of it.
Straight to the point and no BS as always, ovrrnbw.
Good to know about divulging details as well. I am guilty of saying more than I mean to.
