Don't worry about what she's doing. I guarantee she has no idea what the heck she wants from one day to the next. Be calm, be the one with your head screwed on straight and go enjoy your day, week, month, life.
I believe you. She temp checked me a lot during dinner. Asked me if the friend I met off FB was a date and if she needed to take D4 next time. Told her it was not a date and I would let her know if I had date plans (HAH!).
She talked about getting a 3rd job. I just said “ok” and we continued to talk. She talked about how great this year was despite it’s heaviness. And I thought...”you’re lying”, but let her talk. I basically assumed everything she was telling me about her plans is a lie.
I need to continue to work in stopping her cake-eating. I want her to really start feeling a sense of loss, but I don’t want to come across as an a-hole.
Photo shoot is still planned for this weekend. One person dropped out so we’ll see how it goes.