DB again... too late or last strike

[ovrrnbw]

Did,

it's going to be tough, but do not falter. Keep following this plan and allow yourself to calm down a bit. Your W needs to figure out that this is what it will be like if she divorces you like she said at BD. So keep the path, only respond to direct questions. Respond as briefly as possible. Be nice, but not overly nice. Go enjoy your life.

Also, don't get temp-check here or sucked into a R talk. I can see her saying things like "I just don't know how we could ever work this out". You need to remember to validate only and not say things like "I'm sure we can figure it out - I love you" etc, etc.