Wow TF you were doing great for a while but now it's you you you. You are hoping beyond hope that she is just going to kick that door down and say I'm sorry I really don't want a divorce. I bet she probably doesn't want to divorce but you make it impossible for her to actually process what she's doing. We tell you don't answer the damn phone and you have an excuse every time. Your IC is a genius because she knows exactly what your wife is thinking, oh wait she can't know that. You are plan B doesn't matter if your IC says so or not you make it possible for your wife to continue on knowing she has a great big safety net to fall into, hell you even told her that. TF you have to detach, reread DB and then read it again. You have to stop pursuing and when you answer that phone you are pursuing and she knows it. When she says I can't afford to pay for school all you had to do is say I'm sorry for that, gotta go. Good luck TF but so far that is all you got. Detach let her go that is the only way you possibly can get her back. It's hard I KNOW THAT IT'S HARD I've been there and I've got the T-shirt and I've got my wife still.
M46 W44 T20 M19 S21 D17 D11 D9 BD 1/2003 Reconciled 2/2004 Contemplating leaving again 4/2018 Deciding to stay 10/2018 (dodged another bullet...few)
