1 year in, and still surviving

[peacetoday]

its reasonable to be angry ,but much more beneficial to not act on that anger
feel it -share here or with safe person then release it

remember it is not personal, many MLCers will abandon their own kids, step kids, blood brothers and sisters and their parents
they want to be free--carefree--no responsibility

I bet there are maybe just a few here if any
who can say their MLCer remained as good a parent as they were b4 bomb
all part of the crises

MY xh has had no contact with his kids since 2009
the LBS has to find a way to be there for the abandoned kids

I told my kids more than once he loves them very much but he is in a crises
If he recovers, we will here from him

over time they let go
they are 17 and 23
never bring him up
they are both doing amazingly well