Whirlwind of Hurt 5

[Ready2Change]

.....yesterday is that W called and I know R2C said don't talk to her, but....

Just things to think about:

1) Was there anything in the conversation that was urgent?

2) If you let it go to voicemail, would you have more time to process what she had to say?

3) Is there a chance for an argument?

I am sure I could list off other things. Just weigh the pros/cons of the convos and decide which method you should use. Emails/Text/Phone/In person.....through the lawyers.




In my divorce agreement with my X, Our child costs are split as a ratio of our incomes. I would believe this is common. Lets say for arguments sake that you both make the same income, well then the tuition cost should be split 50/50.


I am a firm believer in joint decisions and agreements. You both made the decision for private school. To break this, I would believe it takes both of you. Hold her to the agreement. Do this with the legal system. Hold her accountable for the cost. This is her testing you.


New items will come up. Make joint decisions.