So Torn....so happy for you for getting to this point. I think you don't need to do anything more unless you just can't bear being around WW. My concern is the kids...I know in my state my attorney said it could affect custody if you leave. Probably the only reason I am still in the house.

I hit that rope drop point close to a month ago....I could care less what my WW does or who she does it with or what she thinks of my feelings. Like you said how could I R with someone so shallow who has hurt me and my kids and continues to lie her ars off. I have been GAL and have met many new people including women who are genuinely nice and I would consider seeing again. It is an awesome feeling to know life will go on. Another suggestion is get off social media...don't need it especially right now, only creates more conflict and the less she contacts you the better.

I hope you are in the same place as me but I am happy and looking forward to my future. My only concern is how will break it to my W when she comes back around because she has already been taking those steps.


H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019