Sorry to hear that SoTorn, especially with kids involved. I'm lucky in that regards. My wife is gone from the apartment since August. I kicked her out after DDay, as she didn't come home straight away when i found out. Shes still having her A with this guy. Both cheating scumbags.
I hope you will get through this. Stay strong mate. Value yourself and understand this is HER issue, not yours.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)