Manta, I hear you. My WW has not shown any remorse. My WW thinks that because she tried to kick me to the curb by moving upstairs that she wasnt cheating. WW knows I would R with her but she would need to make huge changes and a huge effort. She isnt willing to do that.
I continue to remain detached, GAL, 180. NC as much as possible. WW keeps looking for any little thing that I am doing to tell me that its me that doesnt want to fix this. I am ready for the hurt to end. I want the hurt to end. My M is over. I accept that. I am on IHS with my WW. Its very hard but I will get over it. I know that one day in the future this will all be over. Most likely we will D. I will be fine no matter what. I will be the best father to my kids no matter what.
WW may or may not eventually see how she destroyed our family. I don't have any expectations either way.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
