Determined now as I move forward..

[Ready2Change]

Question: Should I work with my W regarding present for the kids? I'm not talking about buying them together or anything, just letting her know what I am getting them and what she is getting them so we both don't get the same thing and it is not an all out competition or anything.

Yes. Always parent. No covert interactions for R.


Text:

H:"W, I am headed out shopping to buy kids gift A, Gift B and Gift C"

or

H"W, I am planning on ordering gilft A B and C for the kids this evening"

Also, asking, is it inappropriate to invite her for Christmas Eve and stay in the guest room for Christmas
morning?

YES. this is pursing.

Too much?

YES

Too soon?

YES

Too enabling?

YES

Too attached?

YES

Too selfish on my part?

YES

Too many questions!!!!!

NO