@burned—Yeah, total trap. What is a ‘bat’? BTW, thanks for the affirmation—I thought I did relatively well, but clearly could have done better. She hasn’t piped up about S since mid-Oct., but like on a different thread, I’ve been emotionally waiting for the proverbial Sword of Damocles to swing down upon me and MR, so I’m trying to ready myself if it happens. I don’t have firm proof of OM, but in a different post on this thread I did express my doubts and insecurities about that. Like I said, not firm proof, but I’m always gonna wonder.
And you’re right, burned—she knows me well enough to know what my ‘triggers’ and ‘buttons’ are—so remove them.
A/S: As I said on a different thread and would be wise to remember myself, the only winning move is not to play. Don’t take the bait again.
The last few weeks, I’ve been letting go of some more of the housework and not trying to be SuperDad or SuperHubby (what I tried over spring and summer), because in light of what she told me in Oct., I realized that that DOESN’T REALLY MATTER. So, why try so hard if she is supposedly entertaining this idea?
I know what you are saying—do my share, but not exactly bend over backwards for her.
I also shouldn’t get hooked emotionally by her comments—but at least I did that here in the forum instead of in front of her, so that’s progress.
