Still have a ways to go but the latest round of lies, manipulation and essentially a form of kid napping certainly are making the detaching process easier. I'm struggling these days to find anything in the person in front of me that I currently find attractive. I am also realizing that civil co parenting is likely not going to be an option based on some recent events. I really hope that turns around in the near future but for now it looks like we will not be able to work through kids activities jointly. Also not looking forward to the end of this week as the in laws are coming back next Tuesday and W plans on returning home this weekend but there isn't much I can do about it except put a smile on my face and continue with GAL and detaching.