13 years and 2 kids pt. 3.

[Joe2017]

Thank you guys.

I am glad I waited with a response, and i see how attached I am since I had an urge to reply instantly. Now 4 hours later, it felt good to just write "That is fine, thanks."

I see what you mean by her not wanting the things now, that she craved earlier. And I will not be putting on a behavior that looks needy or repulses her.

I will give her space, and detach for my sake as I have been doing since my birthday screwup. I will show no interest in OM and her endeavors, and stay out of it. I will try to reject all her temp-checks.

Good job waiting. Do not respond instantly, ever. (Unless it is an ACUAL emergency or if it is important involving your kids.)

She does not snap her fingers and summon you.