I am glad I waited with a response, and i see how attached I am since I had an urge to reply instantly. Now 4 hours later, it felt good to just write "That is fine, thanks."
I see what you mean by her not wanting the things now, that she craved earlier. And I will not be putting on a behavior that looks needy or repulses her.
I will give her space, and detach for my sake as I have been doing since my birthday screwup. I will show no interest in OM and her endeavors, and stay out of it. I will try to reject all her temp-checks.
BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018. EA: June 2018 PA: August 2018 - ongoing Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.
