13 years and 2 kids pt. 3.

[Joe2017]

Go back and read Sandi's rules. You can't engage in any pursuit behavior.

Listen man, she has already left you. It's not the end of the world, but it IS the end of your relationship as it used to be. It's probably the end of your marriage. Again... It is NOT the end of the world. Your life is not defined by your marriage.

Your value is not dependent upon your WW's opinion of you.

From now on this is about you and your kids. Not her (except when it affects a kid).

Seriously man, you have so much more to live for than someone who would disrespect you like this.

You do NOT cuddle with a cheater. You do NOT serve a cheater. You do NOT support a cheater.

You DO regularly engage in some sort of physical activity - gym, running, karate, whatever. You DO make sure your kids now how much you love them ALL of the time. You DO treat your WW with the respect you give the cashier at the grocery store or McDonald's.