Journaling: there are days where I feel that my W will never come back and we have been separated too long for her to want to reconcile. I will not even know how to strike up a conversation with her. Her biggest reason for wanting a divorce is because we have nothing in common, and there is no point convincing her. Her parents just enable this behavior. I am continuing to cooperate with her but I feel she feels that all hope is lost. I know I cannot convince her to try, but I wish she would. She has nothing to lose.