Originally Posted by Bo562
ovrr,

I’m trying to do this in my sitch, too.

But what I’m finding is that my W looks less attractive overall, even though I really can’t have her. I do find her sexually attractive and want that with her, but that’s pretty much it. I can’t tell if that is a good thing or not that it is only limited to that—like I want to hook up and be done.


I feel like I might be the same way. I’m very physically attracted to my W. That’s why it drives me nuts that she’s still in the house wearing tight yoga pants and tight workout shirts the whole time. I’m definitely on my way to detaching on the emotional level from her. Not completely but I’m on my way. The physical attachment is strong though. Probably a combination of 1) I can’t have her, 2) she really is a smoke show and 3) I haven’t been intimate with anyone for 3 months.


M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19