But what you’re saying is that I shouldn’t read too much into all this, correct?
Exactly. WAS's will often be friendly, even overly friendly after BD. This can confuse the LBS and make them think maybe the WAS has had a change of heart. That usually leads to a temperature check and the LBS getting BD'd all over again. The reality is the WAS does this to "soften the blow" and/ or make the S and D process go smoother (they hope).
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I shouldn’t get too worked up about all this, but I am worried about a post-New Years / holiday BD. This all really came to a head back in late-January / early February. She mentioned something about when YS ‘is in a better place,’ so that may be then.
Yeah there's really no telling. I understand you want to know, I mean the "not knowing" what they are going to do is pure torture. But just try to live with not knowing and work on you and your GAL.
