You’re right—stop trying to mind-read her, but it’s hard to not look for signs, of anything.
I just need to concentrate on being more present to her, in the moment.
I’ve said it before, and will say again and again and again—if she really is that depressed / angry / whatever, she needs to be sitting in front of a professional every week or two.
I won’t force her—and while I’m bothered by my trying to get things right and her not appearing to what to fix what is inside, I did have a moment of clarity (I suppose)—that she tried to get things right and for her, I didn’t appear to fix what was wrong.
