I’ve noticed she’s been a bit more chatty with me recently, and we’re going out for dinner on 12/22 and she acknowledged our anniversary.
But what you’re saying is that I shouldn’t read too much into all this, correct?
I also know believe nothing they say, half of what they do.
But yeah what you described sounded an awful lot like her—first unhappiness (she would bring something up to me and then tell me that she is telling me this so that her ‘conscience would be clear,’ and I would ask her what that would mean, and she would say either ‘nothing,’ or repeat ‘just so my conscience would be clear,’ then communication of that unhappiness, then living with it, then not tolerating it. And then ILYBINILWY bomb back in February—and that’s been it for BDing, for now anyway.
I shouldn’t get too worked up about all this, but I am worried about a post-New Years / holiday BD. This all really came to a head back in late-January / early February. She mentioned something about when YS ‘is in a better place,’ so that may be then.
