You go for your KIDS! You don't hurt your kids by not attending important events in their lives. You be polite, respectful, but not chatty. And for goodness sakes don't say how you are going to be or why do your wife. That she is there is not your concern. You are focused on your KIDS!
DO NOT MISS YOUR KIDS EVENTS! You be the strong confident father they need, quit thinking of how she is thinking or what you'll do. She's like any other adult attending the event.
